When is a life no longer worth living?

IAnyone suffering from a chronic illness will at some point or other have asked the question 'why me?'. I am no different, indeed in the last few months I have been thinking this on a regular basis. The other one is 'what on earth did I do to deserve this?'. Of course there are no answers to either, it's just a case of how the dice rolled. In my case the odds were awful.

As I sit here, writing this I now have CRPS in both lower legs, eyes, upper arms and mouth. CRPS is a condition that I wouldn't wish on anybody. Cruel, sadistic almost, it can strike anywhere, and in my case it feels like I'm under siege. Not content to stay where it started, in my right foot, it just keeps on coming, always getting worse. No remission for me, that would be too much to ask.  It does what it wants, when it wants. It is so hard to keep going, let alone stay positive when you are trapped in a broken body that constantly makes doing anything harder or even impossible. What do I have to look forward to? What does the future hold? What state am I going to be in, say, 2 years? Or 5? I learnt long ago that it's better to stay in the moment. Get through each day and move on to the next. Sadly it isn't that easy, especially when you feel the limited quality of life you have is slowly but surely being dragged from under you.

When it struck in December 2005, CRPS stripped me of everything that defined me. Within six months my life bore absolutely no resemblance to the active and busy life I had before. I didn't set foot in a classroom again. Ironically I'd just gained promotion at a new school that September. I couldn't play golf, go swimming or even drive my car. Instead I became completely dependent on my husband for anything and everything. The independence I had taken for granted gone forever. I can't even remember what life was like back then. There was no point dwelling on the past so I moved on and tried to build a new life for myself. 

So what is my life like? Well, I can't go anywhere on my own, can't even get out of the chair that I live (and sleep) in. Can't look after myself, let alone Eric and our dogs. I rely on ordering the things we need online because going shopping is simply too difficult. On balance it, like so many mundane activities I used to take for granted, are frankly not worth the pain and struggle to do anymore. Let alone the inevitable escalation of pain, swelling, exhaustion and everything else that follows in the days that follow. Spontaneity is a concept that no longer has any meaning for me. Everything is a military exercise, from getting dressed, sitting on the commode, dragging myself upstairs to have a bath to somehow getting from the house to the car if we go out. Everything is an ordeal and takes ages because of the help I need. Frustrating doesn't come close! Of course, going out means I have to get dressed and sit on the commode before even thinking of trying to get out to the car. It is sheer bloody-mindedness and a determination not to be beaten that results in me doing anything at all. 

There aren't many things I can do these days being confined to my chair all day every day. I play video games whilst my husband walks the dogs. I read, watch television, knit and potter about on my iPad and MacBook. Then of course there are the two real passions in my 'new' life, speedway and archery (which I can do sitting in my electric wheelchair with the elevating leg rests up).  

I'd never been to a live speedway meeting before I got CRPS. One trip and I was hooked. There's nothing better than hearing the roar of the bikes, the characteristic smell of methanol, and watching four men zooming around a track riding bikes with no brakes at speeds up to 80 mph. A heat typically lasts about a minute depending on the size of the track. Not long, but boy can a lot happen during those four laps. Incredible skill, daring, you find yourself shouting as loud as you can for your team's riders, totally engrossed in the spectacle in front of you. I looked forward to every meeting even though it took a hefty toll, the pain both at the time and for days afterwards was so much worse. I'd lose several days to sleep and then have to do nothing until the next meeting so I was 'at my best'. But I'd be there every meeting come what may. Eric, bless him, never refused to take me even when he knew it was utter madness. There's that bloody mindedness again. CRPS wasn't going to stop me.

I love archery, the only sport we could find that could replace the sports I'd lost. I'd always been sporty,  playing badminton, tennis, hockey, golf for club or county (or both) pre CRPS. To not be able to take part in a sport was unthinkable. Exercise when you can't walk but can't shove your legs out of the way (like those who are paralysed can) is extremely difficult. Archery fits the bill perfectly, and I was surprised to find that I was pretty good at it too. A wonderful bonus was that archery also seemed to help my arms. Not for long but it did. The competitive me that had laid dormant so long returned, I entered a few local competitions and won some medals. Again the price I paid for shooting was brutal and lasted days after I'd shot but CRPS wasn't going to stop me doing this either. 

Except CRPS has stopped me or it's doing it's best. It feels like I'm slowly being stripped of my life all over again. I can't go to speedway meetings anymore, I can only watch it on television or YouTube. The decision to stop going was so tough. But I had no choice, I simply couldn't cope with the pain during the meeting nor the crushing payback that followed. I'd kept going longer than was sensible, but, me being me, I had to keep going until I simply couldn't anymore. That must be at least seven years ago if not longer. I now watch as much speedway as I can, having even had Polish satellite television installed so I could watch that. It's not the same, but it's better than nothing. Well, sort of, but it's all I've got.

If I read a book or use my tablet/MacBook too long or try to play my video game just that little bit longer CRPS puts the boot in. I sweat profusely, my eyes become incredibly painful, I feel sick and the only thing I can do is stop and rest. Sleep is inevitable, stripping me of part of each day. Sometimes I'll lose and entire day to sleep. I can't get that back. The only good thing about the amount of time I now sleep is it means I'm not in pain. Until it breaks through again and wakes me up. I regularly wake up with blurred vision, payback for my 'crimes' either earlier that day or the day before. The length of time I can do things has got ever shorter as time has gone on. I leave it to you to imagine what I went through filling in the horrendous forms the DWP send you to fill in to prove you're disabled enough to deserve benefits. Not helped by a GP who took five months or more to get a medical form back. Result? I now have the stress of getting to an assessment somewhere which will be stressful, painful and exhausting.

Archery doesn't escape the tendrils of CRPS. It remains an ongoing battle. For a while I was more likely to hit the wall than the target as my arms refused to get into a good position. I had to gradually rebuild my draw but by bit, which was a challenge. I found a slightly different way which improved things and started to shoot better. I used to be able to reach a 80 yard target. I can't raise my left arm high enough. Now I'm focussing on just 20 yards. I've only been over to the club's field twice this year. Says it all really. What does the future hold archery wise? Will CRPS take that from me too? I don't think I could bear that.

Disaster struck. A massive flare in my right arm back in June left me unable to move it at all. Oramorph on top of the 55mg of Morphine MST constantly flowing round my body , plus 14 others, didn't touch it. I struggled to do anything with it, needed even more help with everything like dressing. Eric even had to pass me a cup of tea from my table. I couldn't shoot, my arms had no chance of getting close to the position I'd need. I was distraught. Couldn't knit. Even holding a book was too difficult. I had to just sit in my chair covered with my blanket with my arm placed as comfortably as I could get it. Over the next few weeks I fought to get some movement back, managed to shoot a few arrows. Then a few more. I haven't got it back to where it was, which of course means my quality of life is that little bit worse. Yet again CRPS has taken a little bit more away. 

It has brought my future uncomfortably into focus. I always knew the affected areas are only going to get worse as the years go on. Spread even further perhaps? But so soon? Not being able to do even the simplest of things now? Not only is that scary, it's totally overwhelming. I admit that I've had some very dark thoughts in recent weeks. What next? Where is it going to end? If I can't shoot, knit, hold onto a video controller long enough to play more than ten minutes before I have to stop? Can't use my MacBook usefully, or my iPad? 

It's taken me so long to write this because I can do so little at a time. Many times I've thought about not finishing it. But then again that's another concession, a bit more ground given. Which brings me right back to the title of this blog post. When is a life no longer worth living? How much does CRPS have to take away before your quality of life just isnt worth the mental and physical battle just to get through one day. Forgetting the next, and the one after that and onwards month after month, year after year? I don't thing anyone knows the answer to that until you reach that point. Let that not be some time to come.....

Postscript: Yesterday I had another massive flare in my right arm. Back to not being able to move it, trying to find a comfortable position where none exists. Here we go again.

Apologies for errors, spelling mistakes. I've not checked it.

Peering into the abyss...

Our worst fears have been realised.... it is CRPS causing the ongoing problems with my arm.

The most recent photo of my arm

I went to see the Physio again on Monday, armed with my pain diary and several photos we had taken during the time since the massive flare caused by the exercises/massage and the appointment.

The photos had been a huge shock to me, because I can't actually see the side of my arm, so had no idea just how bad it was. The symptoms of CRPS were clear to see. Swelling, colour and temperature changes plus a shiny sheen to the skin. Add this to the throbbing pains despite 50mg of morphine flowing round my body 24/7 and it was pretty damning. The Physio confirmed it, saying there was no way the symptoms could be explained by an injury. Especially as this has been going on since March if not earlier. Where we thought he'd found something wrong, the reaction to the treatment was over the top in the extreme.

He is going to write to my Pain Consultant urgently to refer me and hopefully they will get me in quickly. Not holding my breath though after being told I'd have to be referred as a new patient when I contacted the Pain Clinic direct (see previous blog post). I can only hope that I bypass the new patient pre-assessment for which there is a huge waiting time by virtue of the fact that the Physio has already examined, tried to treat and diagnosed CRPS in my arm. I do have the certainty of seeing my Pain Consultant in September/October as I see him every six months. Even this means yet more waiting, time which I can little afford to lose. If you stand any chance of getting CRPS into remission it needs aggressive treatment within the first three months of it starting. Anything after that and you are starting to fight a losing battle. Which is why my legs are as bad as they are. I was nearly six months before we got a diagnosis and it had already moved into the other leg and up to the knees in both.

Of course the difference this time around is that I know my enemy intimately. I am already taking appropriate medication for CRPS because of my legs. OK, they don't do a lot but any help is better than nothing. The critical thing in fighting CRPS though, is to keep the mobility, the range of movement and the use of the affected area. So much of the time before my legs were diagnosed was wasted, I was told to rest as they didn't know what was going on. Totally the wrong thing to do, as I now know to my cost. Every moment of rest let CRPS get a little worse, increasing the pain which in turn made it ever harder to do anything with my legs. I can't push through the pain at all, it is just too bad. Being realistic, the CRPS was so aggressive in my legs I doubt we could have kept it at bay, restricted it to one leg or stopped it moving upwards. But there would have been a chance, however small.

Which brings me back to my arm. Ever since the x-rays came back clear in late April/early May I worked really hard and got back the full range of movement in the shoulder and upper arm. Purely and simply by doing things with the arm regardless of how much it hurt. Pushing through the pain, refusing to let it stop me. Of course the pain never went away, it was and is always there in varying degrees but when I first saw the Physio he was extremely impressed with the 'superb range of movement' I had.

With the benefit of hindsight, trying to treat a problem with the deltoid tendon was the worse possible thing we could have done. After a few days I couldn't do anything at all with the arm, it was horrendous. It felt like I'd lost all the strength. I couldn't stretch it out sideways, forwards, lift it up or anything. The pain was completely off the scale, Oramorph didn't help, I could do absolutely nothing for myself. It was like a massive CRPS flare, which, looking back, is of course what it was. The exercises were stopped and I was told to completely rest it. No archery, no moving the arm above shoulder level. For the next day I could do nothing else but rest it and it settled a little. Me being me, over the next couple of days I had to gently try and move it a little bit. And then a bit more. I started to get the strength back (which of course I'd never lost, I just couldn't use it because it hurt too much), could lift my iPad up for example which is on the table next to me and it was a bit better when Eric helped me out of my chair (I push up whilst he pulls).

Of course I had to do some archery, if only to see whether I could still do it. So a week after stopping the exercises I shot two dozen arrows. Completely pain free! It was a wonderful feeling and seemed to improve the arm if anything. Meanwhile resting it just increased the swelling, the colouring and of course the pain in the arm. Should I do as the Physio advised and continue to rest it completely or do what I felt I should do, namely keep it moving? Of course I did what felt best and so worked on pushing through the pain as I had before. Which is where I am now as I write this. The arm still constantly throbs, becomes worse when it's moved and recently hurts more when exposed to airflow (not very helpful when you have a fan on because it's so hot).

The reality of having CRPS in a third limb has sunk in a bit and I'd be lying if I said I didn't feel a bit fearful of what the future will bring. What if it continues to get worse or moves down the arm? Moves to the other arm? Life is of course going to be harder because I can't support myself as I could, I am ever more dependent on Eric. I am more restricted in what I can do, for example gardening. I used to do loads of stuff in the raised beds, will I still be able to carry on doing that? I worry even more about my weight because I am less active than I was and can't see a way of doing anything about it. Using the Wii to play tennis is out, too much for the arm. I can't believe my luck that archery seems to be the perfect activity but how long will that last? Will archery become impossible at some point? When I eventually get to the pain clinic will they be able to do anything with the arm (nerve blocks etc) bearing in mind everything failed miserably on my legs?

I could go on, but what's the point? It doesn't make my situation any different, so it's a waste of energy. The future will bring what it will. No, I have to concentrate on what I can do now, the positives. Continue to push through the pain, fight to keep the function I have in the arm, the range of movement. It will no doubt flare just like my legs do, but since when has that ever stopped me?  I will do everything I possibly can to keep the CRPS at bay. Continuing archery is a given. Of course!
Come on CRPS, do your damnedest!!!

Please let there be something wrong!!

This coming Tuesday (25/6/13) is rapidly becoming judgement day. That's how it feels anyway. My right arm has been causing me 'grief'' since March or even earlier. I have mentioned it before in my blogs and on Facebook. Was it archery that caused the problem? Probably, even though bizarrely, actually doing archery never hurts in the slightest. It started with pain in the top of my shoulder and upper arm when I moved it, and led on to reduced movement in my both my shoulder and upper arm. The back of my arm above the elbow was also painful to touch or lean on. It wasn't unbearable pain, but it would 'catch' when I moved it, especially if trying to pick something up from the table next to my chair. There were brief periods when even the slightest movement of the arm was impossible because it was so painful. These were short lived and seemed to right themselves so we wondered whether a trapped nerve was the problem. On the whole though the morphine I take masked the pain reasonably well. That said it was baffling how my arm could be so painful when I constantly have 50-60mg of Morphine onboard constantly, anti-inflammatories and everything else I take for CRPS. What on earth was going on?

Of course life became much harder. I found it really hard to press down or pull with that arm. A problem when you need your arms to support you at all times. Getting up the stairs which is completely reliant on my arms pulling me became nigh on impossible. Essentially anything that needed me to push or pull with my right arm became much harder and hurt in varying degrees. Supporting myself was restricted to my left arm, my mobility compromised even more. Eric has been amazing as always, providing even more help than ever, doing even more for me.

We were starting to worry that there was something seriously wrong with the arm. Stress fracture? Frozen shoulder? I went to see my GP, who decided to send me for x-rays. Two weeks later (yes really!!!) the appointment to have the x-rays arrived, and seven separate x-rays later we headed home. When the results came back there was  nothing wrong so my GP said he would arrange for physiotherapy. The 'you can now phone us for an appointment' letter took weeks to come and the first appointment they had was over a month away. Utterly useless but what could I do? Forced to wait I had to get on with having one decent limb. I started to use the arm a bit more despite the pain, safe in the knowledge that there wasn't anything seriously wrong. 

Archery actually seemed to loosen everything up a bit so I have continued shooting throughout. Unfortunately my draw began to get worse and worse. I couldn't get myself into a good position, properly lined up etc so my accuracy and consistency plummeted. Sometimes I couldn't even get the arrow on the target let alone in the gold!! Not good at all. I simply couldn't cope with the bow as it was, my injured arm was clearly struggling with the weight of it or the poundage I was pulling. So I took action. Out went the twin rods and v bar on my bow, together with the 28lb limbs. The latter were replaced by 26lb limbs and I now have a very short long rod (just 19" compared to 28" I was using) courtesy of Iris and Tom.

Two 10s and a 9 - I can still do it!

The bow immediately became so much easier to deal with, I could now get myself into a better position but my accuracy only improved slightly and then went downhill again. I was missing the target again. I had obviously been compensating for the limited movement/strength in my right arm because everything was going miles left. My wonderful coaches Tom and Iris diagnosed the problem within the space of 4-5 arrows (my left shoulder was too high). I've worked on finding a method to keep the left shoulder down with the longer term aim being that I can shoot completely free of pain regardless of how many arrows I shoot and with further stabilisation on the bow. It seems to be working well judging by these arrows that I shot earlier today....

So where does Judgement Day come in?
Well, in the last couple of weeks, my upper arm (below the shoulder) has started to throb with pain, gradually getting worse and worse. Doesn't matter if I move it or keep it absolutely still the throbbing continues. It is very swollen, and the skin has taken on a purple, mottled appearance. It is often colder than the other arm and moving it is impossible due to the pain on occasions. Added to the never-ending pain and the other nonsense in my legs I have been sweating uncontrollably, been constantly exhausted and incapable of doing anything. I have had to take Oramorph as much for the arm as my legs which together with all the other symptoms is extremely worrying.
Why? Because those are some of the things that happen in my legs. Which means there is a realistic chance that although the injury has healed (I now have full range of movement again), CRPS has moved or at the very least developed in my arm. This has enormous implications that I really don't want to consider too much right now. Needless to say the thought of being as I am now (with only one decent limb) permanently is pretty grim. I will carry on fighting as always but the battle would be all the harder.

So, strange as it seems we really want the Physiotherapist to find something wrong with my arm on Tuesday. Because if he does this means it can't be CRPS. We can get it better and then it is just my CRPS riddled legs to contend with. Life can get back to normal. Well as normal as it gets for me anyway......

The threat of losing something

You don't realise how important something is until it is nearly taken away from you. Similarly it is hard to understand how something that was so integral to your well being has suddenly become less important to the point that you could see yourself not doing it again and not being bothered about that. I am of course talking about archery and going to speedway. The former I found again last August/September after a break of 6 years (and had only taken it up after I got CRPS in 2005). It has been well documented in my blog posts about speedway being my 'line in the sand', my ultimate sticking two fingers up at CRPS. I will go whatever you do to me during and after. So bring it on! Equally I've written about the pleasure archery gives me, the challenge, the doing rather than watching. Being coached by the wonderful Tom and Iris, who are the nicest people you could hope to meet and have been so supportive and taught me so much. Archery became a new 'line in the sand' to join speedway.

So what's changed?

Well, let me take archery first. Saturday was a huge day for me. Since early March, if not earlier I have been having trouble with my right shoulder and arm. At it's worst I couldn't move the arm at all, the pain was so utterly excrutiating. My range of movement has been restricted and putting any weight on it causes varying amounts of pain depending on whether I've rested it or not. This despite the fact that amongst other things there are 50-60mg of Morphine flowing round my system constantly. I couldn't pull my bow, couldn't cope with the weight of it, so I was forced to revert backwards, replacing the 28lb limbs I've been using since October to my old 24lb ones and removed all stabilisation apart from the long rod. This made life much easier initially, but I was soon overdrawing and still couldn't get myself in a good shooting position because of the stiffness and lack of full movement. Perhaps bizarrely shooting doesn't actually hurt so I have been able to carry on. Albeit getting gradually worse and worse. I've had x-rays which prove there no stress fractures or other orthopaedic issues. My GP has organised Physiotherapy which unbelievably isn't going to start until June 25th. My archery 'form' had deteriorated to the point where I had no idea what I was doing, arrows were missing the target, not a single onegetting near the gold. That is not enjoyable. It's not only frustrating it brings me down mentally.  I have had such incredible feelings of anger inside which I couldn't explain. 

Spare a thought for what life is like for me at the moment, being reduced to one good limb. With a duff arm, getting about is harder, I can't do any exercise on the Wii because it hurts and I get a bad reaction afterwards. So I worry even more than normal about my weight. I am even more a prisoner to CRPS than ever. My legs are consistently worse than normal because I cannot support myself to the same extent. They have been flaring badly. Sitting watching TV, reading, doing sudoku puzzles, playing a video game whilst Eric walks the dogs isn't exactly fulfilling at the best of times. Going out is a boost but is harder, so I've been even more housebound than ever. I have been watching loads of speedway from Poland, Sweden, Denmark and even Russia at any and every opportunity as always. No change there. However actually doing something physical, be it waving my arms around as I box, play table tennis or whatever on the Wii adds colour to my (drab gray) quality of life. Both mentally and physically. Archery (which would have to be a fluorescent yellow) has added so much joy and excitement to my life. It's something I can do whenever (depending on how my legs are), having a target down the garden or go over to the club's field to shoot longer distances. Archery gives me such a buzz, it's a challenge, fulfilling, good exercise and something you can never say you've mastered. No sooner have I finished shooting than I'm itching to shoot again. I can't get enough of it.

I hadn't realised how down I've become about my archery becoming such a disaster, with the realisation that there was a very real chance that I may have to give it up because physically my arm simply can't cope. Less than a year since I found it again. I stuck the 28lb limbs on eBay as I won't ever be able to pull them again, and ordered a set of 26lb ones which I hoped would allow me to draw comfortably, and get into the correct position to score well. The 24lb weren't ever going to be a long term solution so it felt make or break. Would I be able to shoot? Get into a good position? Cope with the poundage? Shoot with any degree of accuracy? To say I was nervous was an understatement. I was terrified. It was Eric who suggested I do archery on the Saturday which in itself is unusual. Eric was obviously nervous as well, he knows how much archery means, how vital it is for me. How much of a kick I get out of shooting 9s and 10s. If this session was as disastrous as the last, where would I go from there? 

It all sounds terribly dramatic, but you have to realise that for someone who can do so little for themselves finding something so fulfilling is like finding the Holy Grail. The thought of having that taken away is almost unbearable. Not so it seems with speedway. This season I have only been to one meeting out of the 5 or 6 there have been. Not so long ago I would have been to every one no matter how cold it was, how I felt before I went, what it did to me during the meeting and of course in the days that followed. I prided myself on mot missing meetings. I would spend days resting up before each meeting and sit out the payback days that followed. Now I can honestly say I'm not fussed if I go or not.  I follow the updates at home, and don't get that 'I wish I was there' feeling. My love of speedway remains as strong as ever. As I said I watch any live streamed or televised speedway I can. Love it. But I am completely non-plused by going to see the Lkaeside Hammers live. I was hoping that by writing this I might get my mojo back, but those feelings are simply not there any longer. 

Could it be that the 'doing' involved in archery makes it more fun, fulfilling and enjoyable than sitting in the freezing cold just watching speedway. Could it be that simple? On reflection I think it probably is. The racing over at Arena hasn't been terribly exciting in recent times. There isn't a lot of passing and the meetings tend to drag on for no particular reason. I was quite excited by the team that was announced but subsequent events which I won't go into have dented that enthusiasm. Perhaps watching the accident that subsequently killed Lee Richardson as it happened via streaming from Poland has contributed in some way? It certainly hasn't felt the same going there since. There are also so few meetings in a season now, which are spread out horribly, going for several weeks without a meeting, then three successive Fridays. I love being the European arm of @lakesidelive (the unofficial but endorsed live update service). Nothing else has changed, it's just the Hammers and going to their meetings. I could quite happily not go again, but we are going to the next one in early June to see if the sparkle, the buzz returns. I suspect that subconsciously at least I have come to realise that it simply isn't worth everything I go though to go anymore. Jury is most definitely out that's for sure. Something so vital has become an also ran. Who'd have thought it?

So, back to yesterday. My archery session....

After the first few tentative arrows, I got into a good rhythm and compared to recently had a really good session. I was able to get myself into a much better position immediately, wasn't overdrawing and I was getting arrows in the yellow part of the target again!!  Okay, there were still arrows that were terrible, but overall it was so much better. I was and remain ecstatic. I can still do it, with these limbs I can shoot comfortably and it will only get better as my shoulder/arm improve. I'm not going to lose archery! Gone is the anger, that down feeling that has been lingering for weeks. Can't wait to shoot again but CRPS has punished my severely. Party pooper!

Who knows, perhaps when I go to speedway next I'll feel the buzz again, catch the bug and get back to never wanting to miss a meeting. Doesn't really matter to be honest. I have my archery and that's what really matters to me. Here's to years of happy shooting to come....

The quest for success

I've been mulling over what should be the topic of my next post and I've plumped for the quest for success, or more importantly it's importance to the CRPS sufferer. I'll try and share strategies that we use to try to make sure life is about positives rather than dwelling on the negatives. I hope it helps my fellow sufferers and gives others further insight into this terrible disease.

CRPS takes no prisoners as I've said before. I've been writing this since 6.30am, largely because I'm hoping it will take my mind off the horrendous way I'm feeling and the terrible pain in my legs. I woke up feeling like I'd been hit by a bus. The reason? I dared to go out to lunch with Eric for the first time in ages. So I'm sitting here in agony. My legs are on fire, I have stabbing pains all over the place, my cheeks are red hot (cheers morphine!), I'm overheating badly and my head feels like it's surrounded by a fog that is pressing in on me. It would be terribly easy to feel really down and depressed, wishing I hadn't bothered going out. I desperately try not to and that's a philosophy that stands me in good stead.

As far as it is possible I do my best to take the positive from any situation or anything I do. Not dwelling on what I can't do, which would inevitably leave me feeling down, useless and thinking 'what's the point'. In the early days those thoughts were never far away, and certainly contributed to me considering suicide on a daily basis. I'd be lying if I said I don't still feel totally fed up, desolate, low and resentful on occasions because I either can't do something or am really struggling to cope with the payback. Being unable to do anything is so incredibly frustrating. You have to do things to try and take your mind off the pain, so if you can't? Well it's a viscious circle.

The other really important factor to me staying positive is that I don't set any long term or even short term goals anymore. It's pointless because I never know what I'll feel like from day to day, let alone in a couple of weeks/months time. Sponteneity is not a word applicable to the CRPS sufferer. We make appointments, such as the dentist. However these often get cancelled on the day because I'm simply not up to it. We don't worry if we are a bit late for appointments either, we go at our own pace and get there when we get there. Rushing causes more pain and makes me snappy and irritable. People are fine with it because they know the situation. Similarly as far as possible I don't have a deadline for anything, or at least give myself a lot of time to get something done. It seems ridiculous that it can take me a couple of weeks to order something on the Internet. But it's amazing how I simply don't feel up to getting the tablet out. These blog posts take so much out of me, it takes several days to write just one, but again every one published is a success. It is so hard to do anything whilst suffering chronic pain, so why make it worse by doing too much! For the record it has taken four sessions to get this post done. Hope it was worth it!

Another thing I do is keep a diary. At the end of each day I briefly write what Ive done, and more importantly my achievements for that day. We're not talking mind-blowing stuff here, or things which normal people would thing twice about doing. Things such as having a bath, managing to read a newspaper all the way through, ordering something on the Internet, spending time on Twitter. Here are some typical entries....

26/10/2011 - Played Deus Ex (video game, I always play whilst Eric walks the dogs). Feeling really grotty, spent all day sleeping, trying to get well enough for Jackie's visit. Had to get through feeling grim, Managed to get talking in the end, Really good to see her.

23/10/2011 - Played Killzone 3. Played tennis (I do this sitting in my chair using a Playstation Move controller which I swing as if hitting the ball). Felt dreadful later in the day. Read paper today. Slept lots of the afternoon. Read my book.

22/9/2011 - Played Deus Ex. Went to Lakeside (shopping centre). Really enjoying it although legs not good at all. Bought Sony Tablet. Slept all afternoon.Read part of paper. Read my book.

23/9/2011 - Played Deus Ex. Felt absolutely terrible today. Couldn't do much, tried to rest. Read paper. Managed bit of setting up new tablet. Read my book.

Riveting stuff isn't it? I put 22 & 23 September entries in as they show how doing something like going out knocks me sideways. Typically the length of time spent reading is about half an hour before I can't carry on, similarly the newspaper takes a couple of sessions. Sometimes I read the same sentence several times, falling asleep again before I can get any further. I play the video game for about an hour and a half. However each time I manage to do any of these things it's an achievement, something to be positive about. It is also good to read through my diary when I'm feeling low, reminding myself of what I have managed to achieve.

I try not to think how utterly pathetic my daily efforts are compared to what I used to do. With CRPS you have to celebrate the little things because they are all blows made in what is the constant battle against the pain, exhaustion and everything else that is part and parcel of having CRPS.

Last one.. for this season

CRPS does it's best to stop you doing anything and everything. From something as simple as having a bath, to going out, say to the shops. Everything I do has to be planned, in fact leaving the house to go anywhere is like a military operation. Every part is an ordeal, from being helped out of my chair, being helped to get dressed, shuffling out to the car, being helped into the car, the added pain that comes from having my legs down/vibrations from the car, being helped from the car into my electric wheelchair.... you get the picture. Without the constant support from my husband the house, no actually, the living room would be a prison. Even long standing appointments have to go by the wayside if I simply don't feel up to all that it involves. Spontaneity is not a word that applies to my life anymore. You literally have to force yourself to do things in the knowledge that you will pay for it tomorrow, the day after or even the day after that.

I talked, in my last post about adding new things into my life after I got CRPS. As time has gone on some of these have fallen by the wayside, simply because the benefit or pleasure gained is not worth the pain and the payback. I keep talking about 'payback' but what does that actually mean for a CRPS sufferer?

My payback varies in intensity depending on what I've done but there is no escaping it. Minor payback is characterised by increased pain in my legs and feet, a little more swelling. I will also feel tired and mildly 'punch drunk'. This typically lasts for the rest of the day after I've done something such as have a bath or go out really briefly, say for a dental appointment.

At worst the pain is so bad that I don't know what to do with myself, the exhaustion is such that I literally have no control over whether I'm awake or not and I feel so unwell that I can do nothing other than sit in the chair and wait it out. I can't even read. Concentration is impossible. My head throbs, I feel as if I have a thick fog around my head, stabbing pains in my eyes, which also become very bloodshot. Oh, and the swelling increases to the point where my skin feels too tight. Typically we're looking at 2-3 days of this before I start to feel 'better', i.e. when the pain, exhaustion, swelling etc return to 'normal' levels

You can now probably understand why there is the constant weighing up going on in my mind about whether what I am going to do is worth what will inevitably come later. Experience plays a large part. I know if I go to the local shopping centre, Lakeside I will be incapable of doing much for the rest of the day or the next. I was never able to go food shopping before I got my electric wheelchair but this again causes lengthy payback so it is not a regular thing. I no longer go anywhere to do archery, preferring to do it in the back garden, because I don't have the added ordeals of getting dressed, travelling there and back and so on.
 
I also need to plan ahead in an attempt to minimise the payback. Say we're going to try and go shopping on Wednesday. I will endeavour to do as little as possible the day before, so that I feel 'at my best' (or rather my interpretation of) on the morning of my trip out. Of course it doesn't help a lot and it is just as well I'm a bloody-minded, cantankerous wotsit and do things anyway otherwise I really wouldn't leave the house. Which brings me to the title of this post. 'Last one.. for this season'. What am I talking about?

In a word..... Speedway.

My view of the Speedway track

A friend took me along very early on in my CRPS days. He'd said to me about going several times pre-CRPS but I'd never take him up on it. After all there was so much else in my life. Now however there was nothing to stop me. We went to Press & Practice at Arena Essex, where the Arena Essex (now Lakeside) Hammers ride from March through to October. It wasn't a proper meeting, it was more about blowing away the cobwebs and getting ready for the new season. I loved it! The smell, the roar of the bikes, the speed, everything. I then went to my first meeting and it was fantastic. Four riders going hell for leather for four laps. A heat lasts less than a minute but it seems so much longer. So much can happen in 60 seconds, it's like a game of chess. The rider in front trying second guess the chasing riders to maintain the lead. For those chasing it's a case of trying other lines, trying to force a mistake. Did I mention they have no brakes? It takes a hell of a lot of bottle to go at speeds of up to about 80mph with little protection apart from a set of Kevlars and some body armour underneath.

My thirst for speedway isn't limited to watching th Lakeside Hammers in action live at Arena Essex. I also watch Elite League  and Grand Prix Speedway on Sky Sports, Polish Extraliga, Swedish Elitserien and Allsvenkan Speedway meetings streamed live on the Internet. Plus any other meetings I can find. It has become an integral part of my life, an absolute passion. I can't imagine life without Speedway, the Winter is bad enough!


Speedway is the only thing that truly takes my mind off the pain. It is so absorbing, plus there is the camaraderie of those who stand near me each meeting, every season. There is the debate about who we'd put in as a rider replacement, how the points will be shared in the next heat, how good or bad the referee's decision was for an incident. We moan when the team aren't doing as well as we think they should and celebrate our riders' achievements.

The lengths I go to to watch speedway

Unfortunately speedway rates at the top of the ranking in terms of payback. During the Summer when you can have a meeting each Friday for several weeks, my life becomes little more than trying to get over one meeting and prepare for the next. Saturday morning I wake feeling as if I've been hit by a bus. I wait for my tablets to kick in, but they only help a little. I don't remember much of the weekend, spending most of it unconscious. It isn't sleep because I don't get a say in it. I can't fight it, I literally pass out.
By about Tuesday I have rallied enough to possibly go to the Lakeside Shopping Centre. But that's it for the week. The rest of the time is spent doing as little as possible in preparation for Friday again.

Each season has become that little bit harder. If I'm honest this season has almost been too difficult. The pain has broken through more during the meeting and by the time we get back to the car the pain has become absolutely unbearable. How Eric gets me from the car back into the house, undresses me and gets me sat in the sanctuary that is my reclining chair is beyond me..

I am proud to say that despite all that I've described, my attendance has been nearly faultless again this season, as it has been in previous ones.It doesn't matter how I feel I go, it isn't up for discussion.  No matter what CRPS throws at me I will continue to go to speedway. I refuse to let CRPS stop me doing this where it has so many other things since I got it.....  the line has been drawn and is one that I don't intend to to be pulled over anytime soon!

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Grieving for your own life?

Sounds ridiculous doesn't it? Or perhaps sensationalistic? In poor taste? Grieving in the usual sense means someone has died, be it a relation, a friend or a much loved pet. The saying 'life goes on' is cliched but true. You will miss the person terribly, may never get over the loss entirely but you do carry on. It's what we all do, it's what society expects. People are very supportive, life is awkward perhaps as people tread carefully around the subject but then after a while everything settles down and yes life really does go on.

When CRPS strikes, it doesn't just affect you physically. It also has a devastating effect on you mentally. My life changed completely when I got CRPS. I had become trapped inside a body that had seemingly developed a mind of it's own. Was broken, had turned on me. I can't really put a time-scale on it thinking back, but I vividly remember the suicidal feelings that dogged me more and more regularly as it became clearer that I wasn't going to get better, wasn't going back to work. In fact I was only getting worse and having my independence slowly taken away from me bit by bit.

At this point I will try to give a feel for what my life was like pre-CRPS. I have a First Class Honours degree in Physics. I started a PhD at Imperial College focusing on developing new types of lasers before deciding it wasn't for me, and went and did a PGCE a year later.

I was a very good teacher, I've been told this by former colleagues, my OFSTED 'grades' were always excellent, pupils always wanted to be in my science groups, chose 'A' Level Physics because I taught it and my results spoke for themselves. I made lessons fun, did loads of practicals and more often than not the most disruptive element in the classroom was me. I loved teaching, I came alive, 'performed' if you like, full of enthusiasm, making Science fun and doing all I could to dispel the idea that Physics is hard. I was told many times by pupils that I should have been a stand up comedian. I mentored other teachers, be they GTPs or those newly qualified. My career plan was to work my way up through the ranks, Head of Dept, Senior Teacher etc etc..

Sport was my other main love. I was lucky enough to possess a natural talent for all ball sports, ranging from cricket, through golf to racquet sports. I have played badminton, tennis and golf at County level. I also played these at club level together with hockey. I played golf off a 6 handicap (virtually without any coaching) and have had two holes in one. There are lots of trophies and other items littered around on shelves for golfing and tennis competitions that I've won at some point or other. I've played in all sorts of teams for various clubs in various sports. I loved playing sport, loved flogging myself to death at the gym, swimming 50-60 lengths in the pool. Sport of one kind or another was ever-present throughout those 35 years. When I wasn't playing more often than not I was watching it on TV.

I loved walking and playing with our Border Collies Bella and Kayla. They were only about a year and a half and a year old respectively when I got CRPS. I read, was into all things computer, especially repairing and troubleshooting problems. Played video games when I had the time, usually sporting titles. I did all those tiresome, yet necessary chores such as housework, food shopping and ironing. We went out to the cinema, had meals at restaurants and went up to London to visit Galleries etc. All those normal things we do as part of normal life.

Looking back I suppose I could have been been considered a high-flyer. I'd certainly packed a lot into my 35 years. I lost just about all of that to CRPS. Without warning, bang, your life has changed. All those things that you take for granted had become completely out of reach. What was the point of living any longer? I had lost all sense of purpose and was flailing badly. I could only manage to lie on the sofa all day in agony. Doing even the smallest of things left me completely exhausted and in even more pain. I was constantly dog-tired but unable to sleep for any length of time because the pain kept breaking through. I would wake on the hour every hour during the night.

Mere months ago I could happily complete 36 holes of golf carrying my golf bag. I could be on my feet all day, dealing with challenging classes and all the other things teachers have to do. Now I could do nothing, couldn't even stand unsupported long enough to brush my teeth, couldn't carry anything, everything had to be brought to me. Couldn't do any housework, couldn't even make a cup of tea. I had to have help dressing, getting up, bathing, just about everything really. Each morning, Eric would have to pull me round into am sitting position in bed whilst I cried out in agony. Everything had become a nightmare of pain, frustration and degradation. I was eventually to give up on sleeping in bed completely.

Meanwhile the world carried on as normal. My friends all went back to work. It was as if I had stepped into a parallel universe where time had stopped. I couldn't move forward because we didn't have a diagnosis, let alone a prognosis. I'd been setting cover for all my classes at work, but had to admit defeat in the end. How could I set work weeks into the Spring Term when I had no idea what the classes had or hadn't done? Work was the least of my worries, but I hated the fact that I was letting people down even though it wasn't my fault. Human nature I suppose. It all added to the feelings of futility and uselessness.

Perhaps the worst thing though was the catastrophic effect my getting CRPS had on my husband. I haven't mentioned Eric up to now. There is quite an age gap between us and I had wanted to get him out of teaching for some time. He had developed type 2 Diabetes and also had high blood pressure. The sums worked out, we could afford for him to take early retirement, with me continuing to teach. He retired in July 2004. He was going to do all those things he'd never had time for, silversmithing, pottery, printmaking (no prizes for guessing what subject he taught!). Bella had been his retirement present. Only a year and a half into his retirement CRPS completely ruined those plans and he had to become my full-time carer. He did so without complaint, suffered my moods, my anger, my tears. I felt so guilty, felt like a massive burden on him. I was like a huge rock around his neck preventing him from doing anything. Life was not supposed to be like this, why had this happened? What had we done to deserve this?

The worst part of course is that you tell yourself you will get back to normal, return to your life. You can't accept the reality or rather you refuse to accept it. I must have been an absolute nightmare to live with. I wasn't eating, suffered wild mood swings, would sit 'festering', making no attempt to do anything, nor take any interest in life. I had way too much time to think about my situation. I was suffering from depression but couldn't see it. Inevitably my thoughts regularly turned to suicide. I knew exactly how I would do it. I took 40mg of slow release morphine twice a day. I would only need to crush up up some of those tablets, together with Solpadol, Amitriptyline and perhaps some of my husband's diabetes medication. I would wait till he went out with the dogs. Easy.. I figured it would be better for Eric if I was no longer here, he could do all those things he'd planned.

Thankfully I woke one morning and told Eric to take me to the Doctor's. I admitted how I was feeling and asked for help and went onto anti-depressants. They gave me enough oomph to start to fight back. Eric was as always my rock, supportive yet didn't try to influence me in any way. He did tell me that it would destroy him were I to commit suicide. How could I consider doing that to him? Suicide was no longer an option.

The tablets together with Eric's unwavering support gave me the strength to carry on and battle CRPS. The only way I could escape that dark place was to set aside everything that was my life pre-CRPS and try to forge a new life. Instead of looking back I had to look forward and make the most of the lot I'd been dealt. In a way I had to start again. I managed to come round to the way of thinking that feeling down, dwelling on what I had lost was pointless and a waste of energy. It didn't change the situation, so what was the point? It is a philosophy that still stands me in good stead today. I still get periods when I feel down, but can now kick myself out of it. The very dark days have gone forever.

I gradually forged a new life within the constraints of my condition. I took up archery, the only sport I've found that I can do in my wheelchair with my legs elevated. Video games have become a greater part of my life, letting me escape the day to day reality for an hour or so. I aim to be doing something, such as Sudoku puzzles, reading etc all the time I'm awake both as a way of taking my mind off the pain and continuing to use my brain.

I now have an electric wheelchair that allows me to go food shopping, occasionally walk the dogs and go out to lunch with Eric. I can't do these activities very often because like everything else I do I am punished mercilessly after the event. In many ways I would be far better off if I was paralysed because then I could shove my legs out of the way and do so much more.

And finally there is Speedway. A friend took me along to a meeting in the March after I got CRPS. I fell in love with it and am proud to say that I've only missed a couple of meetings in the last six seasons. It plays merry hell with my CRPS, the punishment is horrendous, taking days to recover and I really shouldn't do it. Can't cope with it if I'm honest. Part of me would quite happily stay at home. My husband certainly wouldn't mind as he hates it. He sits reading a book, oblivious to what is going on around him. I will not let CRPS win and will continue to go next season and the next and the next...

So coming right back to the title of this post, I have successfully grieved for the life I had. It was the only way I could continue with life. I do what I can, and constantly push CRPS back. It has taken so much from me, but it won't take everything. I won't let it.....

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Just tell me what's wrong!

Imagine you go to bed one night. Just the same as any weekday night. You went to work that day as normal, in my case teaching, came home, had tea, watched some telly. You get the picture. Nothing unusual, nothing spectacular, just a normal day.

During the night, unbeknownst to you as you sleep, something happens that will completely and totally destroy your life as it was. Something so catastrophically destructive and rare that Doctors don't understand it, can't really treat it and certainly can't cure it. CRPS decided to knock on your door while you were asleep. Little did I know what lay ahead of me when I woke on 16th December 2005.

I went to work as normal on that Friday (16th), with a bit of stiffness in my right hamstring. Thought I must have slept funny. I wish. By the time I was due to teach in the afternoon I couldn't put any weight on my right leg and the foot was freezing cold. I was sent home from work, and by the Sunday my foot was like a block of ice, despite several layers of socks and a duvet wrapped round it. A trip to casualty ensued. I just thought I'd be wasting their time at A&E and be told to go home.

Instead they couldn't find a pulse in my now ischaemic foot and shortly after I found myself sitting in a hospital bed. Not allowed to eat or drink, they put me on a drip to keep me hydrated. I remember it feeling rather surreal, how could this be happening? For the next 48+ hours or so I was attached to a heparin pump and they finally found a pulse sometime in the early hours of the following morning. Think they thought it was a blood clot. How I wish it had been!

Then the testing began. MRI of blood vessels in the leg, normal. Echocardiograph, again normal. They were completely at a loss. I was already getting stabbing pains on the inside of my right ankle and knee, whilst my right foot remained stubbornly cold. Sent home two days later with an appointment at the out-patient clinic immediately they got started again after Christmas.

Unsurprisingly Christmas for us was a complete non-event. We just wanted to know what was wrong. It was like huge dark cloud hanging over us, the fear of the unknown. If it wasn't a blood clot then what was it? Things weren't improving, the foot remained freezing cold. The stabbing pains were ongoing and if anything getting worse. How was I going to return to work after Christmas? Never in my wildest dreams would I have thought at that stage that I would never return to work.

Back to hospital. I had ultrasound on the back of my leg done the day before the follow up vascular appointment. Lovely Consultant but said there was nothing he could do. Absolutely nothing wrong with the vascular system in my leg. It wasn't a clot. He arranged for me to see a Consultant in Rheumatology.

You can probably guess what happened next. Yep, loads more tests. I must by now have had every blood test known to man. The Consultant arranged for me to have a Pamidronate infusion. Utter waste of time, did nothing. Also had a tri-phasic bone scan. All the results were normal. What a surprise! RSD (as he referred to it) was mentioned as a possible cause for the first time.

I felt like I was going mad. I had now had the symptoms for two months or more. There was most definitely something terribly wrong, my mobility was worsening and I was now starting to see similar symptoms in my left leg. Apart from Clopidogrel the hospital prescribed nothing for me. They were I have to say absolutely useless. It was left to my GP to try and prescribe what he could to minimise the pain and other symptoms I was suffering from. I rapidly went through the different classes of painkiller till I was eventually prescribed morphine. I was up to more than ten medications by the time I saw the Rheumatologist the second time. I am still on all of those medications to this day.

I had not been back to work since the day I was sent home. We were also getting more and more concerned about the complete lack of urgency to do anything with me once they found that 'everything was normal'. Nothing we can do other than try to manage the pain (palliative care) so we'll book you into the next joint clinic. Which of course was months away! Eric had started to research the condition and discovered that if treated aggressively within a short time of getting CRPS, you could force it into remission. He was amazing, pushing, hassling, complaining. Trying to make things happen. But like everything else in the NHS, the wheels grind exceedingly slowly. We lost that window of opportunity.

Eventually I managed to get through the very laborious system they run to get to see a Pain Management Consultant. It's an utterly ridiculous system. Appointment to see the Rheumatologist and Pain Management doctors to 'hand you over'. Then you have to wait to go and see a Pain Management Nurse Practitioner to see if you need to see the Consultant. They can't do much, but did prescribe one extra medication which helped a bit. Finally I got to see my wonderful Pain Management Consultant who immediately diagnosed CRPS. He ordered a MRI scan of the lumbar region to check all was well. Yes, of course, it was normal.

By this time everything was considerably worse, particularly my mobility, or rather lack of. It had been more than six months after that fateful night for my CRPS to finally be diagnosed. And in that time it had well and truly got hold of me, remained very aggressive and just seemed to keep coming relentlessly making life harder and harder. I never set foot in a School again, being ill-health retired in 2007.

I've tried to keep my long path to diagnosis as concise as possible but it's vitally important to recognise just how long it takes. As I write this a part of me still wonders whether my CRPS could have been forced into remission had it not taken so long to get to see the right person? Or at least been prevented from moving to the other leg? Of course I will never know and it may well be that my CRPS was always going to be severe enough that nothing would touch it effectively. I just do my best to get on with the life I've been left with. More on that at another time.

Of course you have far too much time to think and mentally you go to pieces. I spent much of those six months feeling sufficiently depressed that thoughts of suicide were regularly present. Were it not for my wonderful Eric and my Border Collies, Bella and Kayla it's safe to say I wouldn't be writing this now. Thank you my love for all you have done and continue to do for me. Without you life simply would have no meaning now.

I'm sure the vast majority of CRPS sufferers have gone through a similar ordeal as me to get a diagnosis. It almost seems as if it is diagnosed on the basis that everything else has been ruled out. In the meantime your symptoms are getting worse, you fear for the future. You can't move on, can't get back to work. You are literally in limbo. The symptoms prevent you from doing things both because of the pain, exhaustion and compromised mobility. You're also worried that you might make things worse. Uncertainty reigns and there is little if any support from the medical profession.

Surely in this day and age you shouldn't have to resort to looking on the Internet to find out about your condition because neither your GP or most Hospital Doctors have even heard of it? And in some cases don't even believe it exists!


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Introducing my CRPS

I have a condition known as Complex Regional Pain Syndrome (CRPS) also known as RSD, a rare disease which affects the Sympathetic Nervous System. CRPS affects both my lower legs from and including the knee downwards. Actually it's moving above the knees if I'm honest but I prefer not to think about it. I also have problems with my eyes. I will have had CRPS for six years come December. I would not wish this disease on my worst enemy so completely debilitating and life changing it is. The only way to deal with the catastrophic effect it has had is to now consider my life as consisting of two parts. Pre-CRPS and Post-CRPS. More on that another time.

The day to day impact of CRPS is that the affected areas are constantly (and I do mean 24/7) painful. This pain is not a gentle ache, we are talking pain of the potency that at times you would happily accept death just to escape it. That sounds ridiculous to 'normal' people, after all everyone suffers from pain, we should just get a grip and get on with it shouldn't we?

My pain is constant, relentless and varies in type and intensity. I constantly have what feels like ripples of fire running up and down the front of both legs. Most of the time I can't actually perceive my legs at all, there is just pain. Then add in the stabbing pains, such as through the middle of each foot, as if you've been impaled to the floor. Or the side of the knee as if someone has stuck a knife in and is slowly twisting it. Or through each ankle, or through the middle of your leg. Imagine this is happening all day every day, it never goes away, never gets better. Indeed it only gets worse if you do even the most trivial of things. Indeed CRPS punishes you for daring to do somethings as simple as have a bath, get dressed or anything else considered even vaguely normal. Life with CRPS is about as far from normal as it is possible to get.

The swelling - gross!!

Sadly you don't just have to deal with the constant pain, there is so much more. The swelling (oedema) around my knees and ankles is frankly disgusting. Years ago I measured around one of them and it was 34". Yes the same as many men's waists. And both knees are worse now, I don't measure anymore. My right foot points inwards because of the swelling around my ankle. I can't see my toes as they are so turned over. Bizarrely both big toes stick up on the air constantly. I cannot move any of them because of the pain. Unfortunately I still have full range of movement so that should my joints get pushed or pulled accidentally they work, producing exquisite, sickening pain. My balance is unsurprisingly rubbish.

What else? Oh yes the hypersensitivity (allodynia). My legs cannot stand anything touching them, my pain increases the longer the contact. I spend as little time as possible wearing trousers, socks. Perversely even the slightest hint of air flow over them increases the pain so my legs have to be covered constantly. The phrase 'stuck between a rock and a hard place' springs to mind. My husband has to help dress me. He is incredibly careful but sometimes he touches me slightly with a knuckle. This causes me to howl with pain. It is unbelievable how the slightest of touches exacerbates the pain so much. Similarly hot/cold water causes a disproportionate response. My husband runs the bath, so I know the temperature is fine. Yet I put my foot slightly in, it feels boiling hot. Movement of water, has the same effect so swimming is impossible. I even pick up the vibrations from the car when we go out. This forces my husband to try and find that particular day's optimal speed in an attempt to minimise the pain.

Speaking of increased pain, when my legs are 'down', say as you would sitting normally on a chair, then my pain increases as does the purpling effect which is ever-present over the whole of my lower legs. I can no longer sleep in bed, so my life is restricted to living & sleeping in an electric reclining chair, with my legs up carefully covered with a lightweight duvet. When I go out my wheelchair also has to have elevating leg rests.

Like so much with CRPS you have to tell yourself that there is NOTHING PHYSICALLY WRONG with your legs, you cannot damage them and the water isn't too hot. Really difficult at timesI can tell you...

The above sounds horrible as I read it back. However it is not exaggerated in any way, I'm just telling it like it is. I remain as positive and bloody-minded as I was pre-CRPS, two qualities that have helped me deal with it. I rattle with pills that do very little and I am constantly 'punished' for daring to push the disease as hard as I can.

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